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Wednesday, June 19, 2019

Siblings: Tommy & Ruby Durham


Tommy & Ruby Durham

Tommy & Ruby's mom, Etta Luticia Brasher Durham Martin Redwine was a traveling evangelist and unfortunately, left them to whomever would take them.  They just had the two of each other.  Both had tough/painful lives.  My Mammaw was their half sister and was raised by someone else (Aunt Annie).  I was just thinking about them today and how their bond must've been incredible.  I wasn't able to meet Aunt Ruby but I was able to meet Uncle Tommy once in 1988 on a visit to Florida.
When you're doing genealogy, you know that you'll be open to all stories, including Pandora's box of pain.  My heart has been so broken for my Great Uncle & Aunt and the void and loneliness they felt.    

William Marvin Durham family
Marvin, with Tommy (left), Ruby (middle) and Etta with Johnny
Marvin passed shortly after this photo was taken and baby Johnny died at a year old

Etta Brasher Durham Martin with Ruby & Tommy Durham

Etta Brasher Durham Martin with Ruby & Tommy Durham

Ruby & Tommy Durham

 Ruby & Tommy Durham
Left to right: Aunt Ruby, Uncle Tommy & Aunt Annie Martin Taylor

Uncle Tommy & Aunt Ruby Durham

Uncle Joe Taylor, Aunt Annie, Uncle Tommy & Aunt Annie Martin Taylor

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